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Nourishing the Soul Healthy Meal Planning and Cooking Hacks for Single Mom

Being a single mom is undoubtedly a challenging yet rewarding journey, and one of the constant struggles is managing mealtime effectively. Balancing work, parenting, and personal well-being can often leave little time for planning and preparing nutritious meals. However, with some practical meal planning and cooking hacks, single moms can make the most of their time, ensuring that their family enjoys healthy and delicious meals without breaking the bank. Even with limited resources it is possible to maintain a healthy lifestyle if you focus on nutrient-dense foods.

  1. Efficient Meal Planning:
    • a. Weekly Meal Calendar: Create a weekly meal calendar to map out your meals for the entire week. This not only helps in organizing your grocery shopping but also ensures a diverse and balanced diet for your family. This will also help budget your money so that you aren’t spending it on last-minute meals that can be costly.
    • b. Quick and Nutritious Recipes: Opt for recipes that are not only easy to prepare but also packed with nutrients. One-pan dishes, slow cooker recipes, and sheet pan meals can be lifesavers, minimizing prep time and cleanup. A great place to find what you need is on Pinterest. They have many quick and easy dishes that you can look up.
    • c. Budget-Friendly Ingredients: Explore cost-effective yet nutritious ingredients like animal proteins, frozen vegetables, and whole grains. These staples can form the basis of numerous healthy and affordable meals. Look at ways to get meat in bulk it can help you save a lot of money in the end.
  1. Smart Grocery Shopping:
    • a. Bulk Buying: Purchase non-perishable items in bulk to save money in the long run. Staples such as rice, pasta, canned goods, and spices can be bought in larger quantities, reducing the frequency of grocery store visits. Look into joining a club store where you can buy things in bulk and even get cash back on your purchases. Costco has a great program that if you consistently shop there it will cover your membership fee with the cash back you get.
    • b. Seasonal and Local Produce: Choose seasonal and locally sourced fruits and vegetables, as they tend to be fresher and more affordable. This not only supports local farmers but also ensures a variety of nutrients in your family’s diet. In the summer there are usually farmers markets that can be a great source for local produce but also you can find meat if you are looking for a locally sourced place.
    • c. Discounts and Coupons: Keep an eye out for discounts and coupons. Many grocery stores offer loyalty programs or weekly promotions that can significantly cut down on your overall food expenses. There are two apps that you can get ash back on one is Fetch and the other is Ibotta. When you are done shopping upload your receipts and get cash back on your purchases. Also, look on-line for manufacturers coupons so that you can get an initial discount at the register.
  1. Efficient Meal Prep:
    • a. Batch Cooking: Dedicate some time on the weekends to batch cooking. Prepare large quantities of staple items like grains, proteins, and sauces that can be used in various meals throughout the week. If you plan efficiently it will make the week go by so much smoother.
    • b. Freezer-Friendly Meals: Create freezer-friendly meals that can be easily reheated on busy days. Casseroles, soups, and stews are excellent options for freezing and can be a lifesaver during hectic weeks. Anything that you can grab and heat up is going to be a lifesaver in the middle of the week.
    • c. Pre-cut and Washed Produce: Invest in pre-cut and washed vegetables to save time during meal preparation. While these may be slightly more expensive, the time saved can be invaluable for a single mom managing multiple responsibilities. Look at ways to cut corners and save time by using pre-cut or frozen vegetables.
  1. Strategies for Managing Mealtime:
    • a. Family Involvement: Encourage your children to participate in meal planning and preparation. Not only does this create quality family time, but it also instills healthy eating habits in your kids. Help your kids understand the process of planning out their meals for the week by including them in choosing what they would want to eat for the week. Have them come to the store with you and get them to participate in buying and finding the foods. Teach them to look at prices and compare and contrast quality and quantity.
    • b. Flexible Meal Times: Embrace flexibility in meal times. As a single mom, unexpected events may arise, so having a more relaxed approach to meal schedules can reduce stress. You may not be able to sit all together for a meal every night but it’s good to have a couple meals a week where you sit with your kids and make them understand what it means to sit at a table.
    • c. Self-Care: Remember to prioritize self-care. Whether it’s enjoying a quiet meal after the kids are in bed or treating yourself to a night off from cooking, taking care of your own well-being is crucial. Remember that it’s ok to do takeout when you just can’t swing it or are having an off night. You want to be the best version of yourself for your kids so figure out what that looks like and how to make that happen.

Healthy meal planning and cooking for single moms is not just about feeding the family but also about nourishing the soul. By implementing these easy, budget-friendly meal ideas, meal-prepping tips, and strategies for managing mealtime effectively, single moms can create a supportive and nutritious environment for their families, all while embracing the joys of parenting. You got this! Tell me what kind of hacks help you stay on track nutritionally with yourself and your kids.

Authentic Argentinian Empanadas

My mother was an immigrant from Argentina. She migrated when she was 30 years old to Texas where she met my dad and got married. In her own words, she was a terrible cook because in Argentina her parents had employed a cook and she never learned how to cook. However, over the years she became a proficient and even a great cook. She very quickly acclimatized herself to American culture and was all about the American food diet. As children, we visited Argentina several times and I remember loving the food. While traditionally Argentina is all about beef and asados they do love their empanadas. Other Hispanic cultures have empanadas but I haven’t come across any other Hispanic culture that makes empanadas like Argentina.

When it comes to Argentinian food they don’t do anything spicy. It is a misnomer that all Hispanic countries are about the spice. Argentina’s food is rich with flavor and they also don’t have tortillas. Below is my family’s recipe for empanadas that my mother made several times as children. They tend to add sugar to their meat to make it a sweeter flavor but I love it without sugar. Also, I have to caveat this by saying my mother’s complaint that she didn’t make this often was because she couldn’t find the dough discs pre-made like she could in Argentina. I have successfully found them in Mexican markets but I put the recipe for how to make them on your own if you don’t want to go buy them somewhere.

If you are looking to try something new and a little out of your norm this is a great recipe for you to try.

Argentine Empanadas

Print Recipe
Prep Time 3 hours
Course Main Course
Cuisine Argentinian

Equipment

  • 1 Large bowl
  • 1 Skillet
  • 1 Cutting Board
  • 1 Knife
  • 1 Spatula

Ingredients
  

  • 3 Cups all-purpose flour
  • 1 tsp salt
  • 1 Cup unsalted butter, cold and cut into small pieces
  • 1/2-3/4 Cups cold water

Filling

  • 1 LB ground beef
  • 1 large onion, finely chopped
  • 2 hard-boiled eggs, chopped
  • 1 Cups green olives, pitted and chopped
  • 1/4 Cup raisins (Optional)
  • 2 tsp ground cumin
  • 1 tsp paprika
  • Salt and pepper to taste

Instructions
 

  • In a large bowl, mix the flour and salt.
  • Add the cold butter pieces and use your fingers to crumble the butter into the flour until it resembles coarse crumbs.
  • Gradually add cold water, a little at a time, and mix until the dough comes together. Be careful not to overmix.
  • Form the dough into a ball, wrap it in plastic wrap, and refrigerate for at least 30 minutes.

Prepare the Filling:

  • In a skillet, cook the ground beef over medium heat until browned. Drain any excess fat.
  • Add the chopped onion to the skillet and cook until softened.
  • Stir in cumin, paprika, salt, and pepper. Cook for an additional 2-3 minutes.
  • Remove the skillet from heat and let the mixture cool.
  • Once cooled, stir in chopped hard-boiled eggs, olives, and raisins.

Assemble the Empanadas:

  • Preheat your oven to 375°F (190°C).
  • Roll out the chilled dough on a floured surface to about 1/8 inch thickness.
  • Use a round cutter or a small plate to cut circles in the dough.
  • Place a spoonful of the meat filling in the center of each dough circle.
  • Fold the dough in half over the filling to create a half-moon shape. Press the edges to seal.
  • You can use a fork to crimp the edges for a decorative touch.

Baking:

  • Place the assembled empanadas on a baking sheet lined with parchment paper.
  • Bake for about 20-25 minutes or until the crust is golden brown.
  • Allow the empanadas to cool for a few minutes before serving.

Notes

These are very traditional Argentinian empanadas. They are great for dinner or lunch and they are always good as a snack. Many times they are better the next day and can easily be a go-to food when you are on the run. 
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Setting and Achieving Goals as a Single Mom: Practical advice on setting achievable goals, whether personal, professional, or related to parenting, and tips for staying motivated throughout the year.

As we step into a new year, single moms often find themselves juggling numerous responsibilities, from parenting duties to personal aspirations and professional endeavors. Amidst the hustle and bustle, setting and achieving goals can seem daunting. However, it’s entirely possible to navigate this journey with practical strategies and unwavering determination. Here’s a comprehensive guide tailored to single moms, providing insights and actionable advice on setting achievable goals and staying motivated throughout the year. Though the task of setting goals can be daunting it’s very achievable if you lay out a plan step by step. Habits that are formed can easily be maintained throughout the year.

Embrace Realistic Goal Setting:

1. Define Clear and Specific Goals:

To begin, identify what you wish to accomplish – be it personal growth, career milestones, parenting objectives, or self-care aspirations. Ensure these goals are specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-bound (SMART). Start with writing out the vision for that specific area of your life. If it’s finances, health, relationship, or vacation goals start with the dream. Write out the bigger dream and then break it down into smaller steps. You can put alarms on your phone to remind you of the tasks that you need to do each day that move you closer to the goals you have set for yourself. Don’t focus on the big dream once you have written it down it is out of your brain just take the first step. Sometimes we can get overwhelmed by the bigger things we want in life but if you break it down into managable steps it can be less stressful and it can be more actionable.

2. Prioritize and Break Down Goals:

Single moms have a full plate, so it’s essential to prioritize objectives. Break down larger goals into smaller, manageable tasks. This approach helps prevent overwhelm and allows for steady progress. When you are going after a goal set into motion a plan that requires small steps everyday that you can take so that you can achieve that goal. Make sure you include a reward system along the way so that you have small dopamine hits for your body to celebrate the small achievements you have made. For example if you have a financial goal this year to save up a certain amount of money every time you deposit money in your savings account reward your self with something that won’t take away from your goal. Positive reinforcement will help you to stay on track especially when things get harder to do.

3. Create a Realistic Timeline:

Understand that achieving goals takes time. Set realistic deadlines, considering your daily routine and commitments. Flexibility is key; adjustments can be made without compromising the end objective. It can be hard to find time when you are a single parent to go after your goals but there is time. If you look at all the ways your spend your time each day find the places where you waste your time. Many times if we are honest with ourselves we will find that we waste so much time throughout the day on our phones or being distracted by things that won’t build into our futures. There is freedom on the other side of self control. If you can have self-control in certain areas you will find that in time you with have your goals accomplished because that time that you would have wasted is now spent focused on your dreams.

Strategies for Staying Motivated:

1. Cultivate a Supportive Network:

Surround yourself with individuals who offer encouragement and support. Whether it’s friends, family, or fellow single parents, their backing can uplift and motivate you on your journey. Many times in the persute of our goals and dreams we can hit walls that are almost impossible to get past. One way that can help is sleep on it. We often forget as sinlge mothers that we aren’t machines that can run non-stop. There are times we have to stop and rest and pour back into our own bodies. Eat a good meal, take a good nap, and rest in a bath or call a friend. Having people around you that hold you accountable to your dreams will also help to get you back on track. Find people who see you and what you are wantinging to do and will support you through your ups and downs.

2. Celebrate Milestones:

Acknowledge and celebrate every accomplishment, no matter how small. Rewarding yourself for reaching milestones reinforces positive behavior and fuels further progress. As we talked about earlier in this article positive reinforcment gives you a dopamine hit to your brain. When your brain experiences pleasure from an activity you will be more likely to do it again. The more you want to grow and go after your dream find ways to reward your self that won’t put you behind in your goals. For example if your goal is to lose weight and get healthy don’t choose to eat a whole cake after losing a few pounds. Instead take a bath or watch a movie. Find something that still protects your goals but activates that reward center.

3. Practice Self-Compassion:

Understand that setbacks are a part of any journey. Be kind to yourself during challenging times. Use setbacks as learning opportunities and re-adjust your approach if needed. In life we will always hit moments where we feel like we have failed. In that moment of failure we will find out what we are made of. Take a moment to regroup and grieve the loss then take a look at what you do have and re-adjust. Sometimes the setbacks can bring us into a new perspective that we have never seen before. It’s ok to take a step back and reasses what you need to do. Have compassion on yourself throughout the process because we all have moments where we hit a wall.

Balancing Roles and Goal Pursuit:

1. Time Management and Organization:

Efficient time management is crucial. Utilize planners, apps, or calendars to schedule tasks effectively. Allocate specific time blocks for goal-related activities amidst your parenting and work responsibilities. At the beginning on the week it’s important to get as organized as possible. If you have the ability to on the weekends set out a plan for the week it can help to maximize your time. Don’t forget to add enough moments of play and rest. These are vital for energy replinishment as well as it helps with the creative processes.

2. Delegate and Seek Assistance:

Don’t hesitate to seek help when needed. Whether it’s asking for support from family members, hiring childcare, or collaborating with others, delegating tasks can free up time for goal pursuit. A secret to growth is to know what you are worth. If you can out source a task that will take up time go for it. Spending money for someone to do your laundry can free you to make money or go after a dream while that task is being done for you. There are many creative ways to delegate to free up more of your time for the things that will help build your future. Find ways to cut back on you spending your time on menial tasks and focus on growing your dreams.

3. Flexibility and Adaptability:

Life as a single mom can be unpredictable. Embrace adaptability and adjust your plans as circumstances change. It’s okay to modify goals if they no longer align with your current situation. As single parents you are the only one often times managing all of the things in the household. Anything can come up at anytime and so it can be hard to go after dreams but don’t give up. After the crisis passes keep going after your dream.

As a single mom, embarking on the journey of setting and achieving goals may seem daunting, but remember, you possess incredible resilience and strength. By implementing these strategies and maintaining a positive mindset, you can navigate the year ahead with confidence, making strides toward personal growth, professional success, and fulfilling parenting experiences.

Here’s to an empowering and goal-driven year ahead!

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Delicious Oreo Ice Cream Cake

As a tradition in my family, I make all the birthday cakes for all the children and adults who request them. I love baking all of their cakes from scratch and I make sure that they get the flavors and colors that they all want. This year my 13-year-old nephew requested an ice cream cake. I had never made one before but I’m always up for a culinary challenge. Since my nephew is constantly eating Oreos and ice cream I thought why not make an ice cream Oreo cake for him?

Turns out it was a giant hit! He loved it and wanted to eat it all. Unfortunately, I took it home and accidentally left it in the back seat of my car. I will have to redo it again next year. This recipe is quite a simple one and really is an easy make for any kid’s birthday! Enjoy!

Delicious Oreo Ice Cream Cake

Print Recipe
Course Dessert
Cuisine American

Equipment

  • 1 Food Processor or Plastic Bag
  • 1 Spring Form Pan or Regular Pan
  • Parchment paper
  • Plastic Wrap or Aluminum Foil
  • 1 Spoon or Spatula

Ingredients
  

  • 24 Oreo Cookies (Crushed)
  • 1/4 Cup Unsalted Butter(Melted)
  • 1.5 Quarts Vanilla Ice Cream (or any flavor you prefer)
  • 1 Cup crushed Oreo cookies (for layering)
  • 1 Cup whipped cream or whipped topping
  • Chocolate sauce or hot fudge (optional for topping)

Instructions
 

  • Take 24 Oreo cookies and crush them into fine crumbs. You can use a food processor or place the cookies in a plastic bag and crush them with a rolling pin. Mix the crushed cookies with melted butter until well combined.
  • Press the crushed Oreo mixture into the bottom of a 9-inch springform pan or a regular cake pan lined with parchment paper. Press it firmly to form an even crust. Place the pan in the freezer for about 15-20 minutes to set.
  • While the crust is setting, allow the ice cream to soften at room temperature for a few minutes until it's easy to spread but not completely melted.
  • Take the pan out of the freezer and spread half of the softened ice cream over the Oreo crust layer. Sprinkle a cup of crushed Oreo cookies evenly over the ice cream layer.
  • Spread the remaining ice cream on top of the crushed Oreo layer, creating an even layer.
  • Cover the pan with plastic wrap or aluminum foil and freeze the cake for at least 4 hours or until firm.
  • Before serving, take the cake out of the freezer and let it sit at room temperature for a few minutes to make it easier to slice.
  • Once ready to serve, carefully remove the cake from the pan. You can run a warm, damp cloth around the edges of a springform pan to help release the cake.
  • Top the Oreo ice cream cake with whipped cream or whipped topping. Optionally, drizzle chocolate sauce or hot fudge over the cake for an extra decadent touch.
  • Slice and serve the delicious Oreo ice cream cake immediately.

Notes

I made this for my nephew’s 13th birthday and he loved it! There’s nothing a teen boy loves more than icecream and Oreos so why not put those together?
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Gifts of Love for Single Moms: Celebrating Christmas As a Single Mother

As the snowflakes dance delicately in the wintry breeze and the streets light up with festive cheer, Christmas arrives with its magical aura, ushering in warmth, joy, and the spirit of giving. For many, this season represents love, togetherness, and cherished moments with family. However, for single mothers, the holiday season might entail a unique set of challenges, yet it also offers a multitude of precious gifts—those of love, resilience, and cherished memories with their children.

The role of a single mother is an embodiment of strength, dedication, and unwavering love. Balancing responsibilities, providing for the family, and nurturing children while navigating the holiday season alone can be both daunting and rewarding. Yet, amid these challenges, there exists a tapestry of invaluable gifts that this time of year bestows upon these resilient women.

The Gift of Resilience: Single mothers exhibit a remarkable resilience that shines brightly during the Christmas season. They exemplify adaptability, finding innovative ways to create magical moments and beautiful memories for their children. Whether it’s decking the halls with handmade decorations, baking cookies together, or crafting heartfelt gifts, their resilience fosters an environment where love and joy prevail despite any adversities. As a single mother during this season remember that what you have already walked through and that you made it to this point. No matter what Christmas or the holidays looks like for you this year know that you made it through. Think about and meditate on how grateful you are for being in a safe space. Your children will pick up on your thankfulness whether you have a lot or not and it helps to demonstrate you can be happy in any situation! You got this momma!

The Gift of Unconditional Love: Christmas serves as a poignant reminder of the unyielding love single mothers have for their children. Through their sacrifices and unwavering support, they demonstrate the true essence of unconditional love. Every wrapped present, every carefully prepared meal, and every tender moment shared is a testament to the depth of their affection. As single mothers we can demonstrate unconditional love by creating moments where our children feel our focus and our energy towards the holidays. Let the stress wash away and don’t worry about keeping up with those around you. The small moments are often the times when our kids will remember the most and hold them as times when they felt loved and cared for.

The Gift of Empathy and Gratitude: Having navigated hardships, single mothers often possess a unique empathy and gratitude. They understand the importance of kindness and the value of small gestures. During Christmas, this empathy blossoms as they teach their children the significance of giving back, whether through volunteering, donating to those in need, or simply spreading kindness in their communities. Take the opportunity during this holiday season to find ways to give back to those around you. Whether its your neighbors or your child’s teachers. Give them the gift of being able to give back to others. This also helps them to feel grateful that they can serve others in this way.

The Gift of Bonding and Togetherness: Amidst the hustle and bustle, single mothers cherish the moments spent together with their children. Whether it’s cozying up by the fireplace, sharing stories, or singing carols, these cherished moments foster a sense of closeness and togetherness that becomes the most precious gift of all. It can be hard to turn down invitations in this season but if you feel like it will hinder your moments of bonding with your children choose relationship over activity. You may not remember the party you went to but your kids will remember the moments they spent with their mom during the holidays. Kids care less about the activites or hustle and bustle of the season but more about the moments and memories that you make together.

The Gift of Self-Care and Strength: Taking care of oneself can often take a backseat in the whirlwind of responsibilities. Yet, during the holidays, single mothers recognize the importance of self-care and resilience. They exhibit strength by embracing moments of solitude, practicing self-care rituals, and seeking support when needed—showing their children the importance of valuing one’s well-being. It’s ok to need a time out as a mom. If you are doing the holidays alone it’s a lot of extra on top of your normal routine and schedule. Take moments to yourself to pull away and rest. Whenever you can take time to listen or read books, take hot bathes, or exercise. However you destress take the time to destress your body will thank you by staying healthy during the holidays!

In celebrating Christmas as a single mother, the essence of the season lies not in the grandeur of gifts or extravagant festivities but in the immeasurable gifts of love, resilience, and togetherness. It’s a celebration of the indomitable spirit that thrives within these incredible women, a testament to their unwavering love and dedication.

To all the single mothers navigating this holiday season: may your days be filled with the warmth of love, the joy of cherished moments, and the knowledge that your resilience and love are the greatest gifts you bestow upon your children. As the snowflakes adorn the landscape, remember that your love lights up their world in ways that no material gift ever could.

This Christmas, let us all take a moment to honor and celebrate the remarkable strength and love of single mothers, for they embody the true spirit of the season—giving, loving, and nurturing with hearts full of boundless love.

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Grandmas Banana Bread

I’ve been trying to capture some of my mother’s old recipes since she passed. Since my sister got this handwritten recipe from my mother I haven’t had the opportunity until now to capture this recipe and convert it to a blog post. In a way this will be a memorial to my mother for all the time she disliked cooking but did it anyway to feed her family.

This recipe reminds me of simpler times when you just grabbed a cup of coffee sat at the table and enjoyed the warmth of the freshly baked banana bread with some butter. For those days when comfort is needed, this is a great addition to any breakfast table. Enjoy!

Grandmas Banana Bread

Print Recipe
Course Breakfast
Cuisine American

Equipment

  • 1 bowl
  • 1 spoon
  • 1 Loaf Pan
  • 1 Measuring Cups
  • 1 Tablespoons and Teaspoons

Ingredients
  

  • 3 Ripe Bananas
  • 2 Eggs well beaten
  • 1/2 cup Butter
  • 2 cups Flour
  • 1 cup Sugar
  • 1 tsp Salt
  • 2 tsp Vanilla
  • 1/2 tsp Baking Soda
  • 1/2 tsp Baking Powder
  • 1/2 cup Coursely chopped walnuts (optional)
  • 1/2 cup Chocolate chips (optional)

Instructions
 

  • Grease loaf pan
  • Mix the bananas and eggs in a large bowl.
  • Sift in flour, sugar, salt, baking powder, and baking soda.
  • Mix all the ingredients until the batter is well combined.
  • This part is optional if you want to mix in walnuts or chocolate chips you can but it's up to you.
  • Bake at 360° for an hour and 15 minutes.
  • Check for doneness with a tooth pick when it comes out clean.
  • Allow time to cool a little but you can eat it warm with a slab of butter.

Notes

This banana bread is a great recipe to have when you have leftover mushy bananas and need to get rid of them quickly. If you want to make it friendly add the chocolate chips. Enjoy this with a great cup of coffee for breakfast!
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Navigating the Holidays: A Single Mom’s Guide to Celebrating Christmas

Title: Navigating the Holidays: A Single Mom’s Guide to Celebrating Christmas

‘Tis the season to be jolly – or so the saying goes. But for many single moms, the holiday season can bring its own set of challenges. From managing the hustle and bustle to finding the balance between festivities and everyday responsibilities, navigating Christmas as a single mom might seem daunting. However, fear not! With a little planning, creativity, and a sprinkle of joy, it’s possible to create magical moments and cherish the spirit of Christmas.

Embracing the Holiday Spirit

The essence of Christmas lies in its spirit of togetherness and love. As a single mom, embracing this spirit starts with acknowledging the unique journey you and your children are on. Whether it’s establishing new traditions or carrying forward old ones, creating a warm, loving atmosphere can make the holiday season truly special. During the holiday work on creating moments and memories that you can talk about for generations to come. Talk about Christmases in the past, ones that were fun and harder ones. Help to navigate the emotions that the season can bring by empathizing with your children in their season of loss. Whether they have lost a parent or are experiencing their parents separating there can be grief that comes up in this time. Focus on bringing the joy, hope, and love that the holiday represents.

Practical Tips for Single Moms

Time management becomes crucial during this busy time. Organizing schedules, preparing a budget, and involving your children in the planning process can alleviate stress and make the season more enjoyable. Remember, it’s not about the grandeur of celebrations but the joy shared in the little moments. As much as you can buy gifts ahead of time to eliminate costly and last-minute shopping. This helps to bring down the immediate cost of Christmas when you start months ahead of time and don’t leave all the shopping for December. Don’t feel bad for saying no to parties when it starts to feel overwhelming. Pace yourself with your holiday activities so that you are enjoying them and not stressing out about them.

Making Memories with Children

The true magic of Christmas often lies in the laughter and joy of children. Engaging in DIY activities, baking together, or even embarking on simple adventures like watching classic holiday movies can create lasting memories for both you and your kids. Good memories come down to moments in time when there is a shared connection with your children. They will remember the feeling long after the time has passed. Sticking with some consistent traditions can also bring a sense of safety and comfort during this season. Children thrive on consistency and they love the predictability of certain activities so create traditions that will help them feel loved and celebrated in this season.

Coping with Challenges

Acknowledging and addressing challenges head-on is vital. Loneliness or overwhelming emotions might surface during this time, and it’s okay to feel that way. Practice self-care, seek support from friends and family, and don’t hesitate to ask for help when needed. Battling emotions to put the best face on for your children can be the hardest part of this season. As a single parent, you will face the reality that you are without a partner during the season when families spend it together. If you can find other single parents to spend the holiday with or even exchange gifts with it will help you feel less alone. One fun idea is if you have other single mom friends switch kids for a shopping trip and have the children pick out Christmas presents for their mom while your children are picking presents out for you. This ensures that you get something on Christmas morning and helps your children think about giving back during this holiday season.

Spreading Cheer and Gratitude

Teach your children the beauty of giving by engaging in acts of kindness. Whether it’s volunteering together, writing thank-you notes, or donating toys, instilling a sense of gratitude and generosity can be incredibly rewarding. As a single parent sometimes you can feel the pressure of the season to “keep up with the Joneses” However if you remember the reason for the season it helps cut down the competition of the holiday and refocuses us on the most important things. Help your children get in the spirit of the season by talking about how they feel when they give. Many organizations are open to donations during the holiday season. Have your children choose one and talk about what you want to give together to create a sense of ownership.

Celebrate the Magic

The holiday season, though challenging, is also a time for reflection and gratitude. As a single mom, you embody strength and resilience. Embrace the season’s spirit, focus on creating cherished moments with your children, and remember that the love and joy you share during Christmas will be remembered far beyond the presents.

This holiday season, let’s celebrate the beauty of love, togetherness, and the magic of Christmas. Cheers to you, single moms – may your holidays be filled with laughter, love, and unforgettable moments.

Share your own tips and experiences in the comments below and let’s spread the cheer together!

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Spiced Bourbon Holiday Cake

Whenever I bake a cake I always think of the box cakes my mother made growing up. They were usually dry and the frosting with store-bought as well too heavy and overall not very good. Being in a larger family with lots of kiddos my goal is to make the best-tasting cakes usually ones they can customize with colors and themes. None…I mean none of my cakes are dry or from a box. Why you may ask well because I want them to remember how much they enjoyed their birthday season. This bourbon cake was my first foray into alcohol-based desserts and it’s a celebration of my brother-in-law and his love of a good bourbon. He’s not much or a dessert guy and isn’t into anything too sweet so this was a perfect blend of light sweetness and the beautiful smokey flavor of the bourbon.

While I was baking this I added a few more tablespoons of bourbon to the glaze because well why not 😏. The cake was a success and everyone enjoyed it even my brother-in-law said he loved it so give it a try you can’t go wrong.

Bourbon Spice Holiday Cake

Print Recipe
Course Dessert
Cuisine American

Equipment

  • 1 Stand Mixer
  • 1 Mixing Bowl
  • 1 Wisk
  • 1 Bundt Pan (buttered/oiled)
  • 1 Tooth Pick

Ingredients
  

  • 1 1/2 Cups All-Purpose Flour
  • 1 tsp Baking Powder
  • 1/2 tsp Baking Soda
  • 1/2 tsp Salt
  • 1 tsp Ground Cinnamon
  • 1/2 tsp Ground Nutmeg
  • 1/4 tsp Ground Cloves
  • 1/2 cup Unsalted Butter (soften)
  • 1 cup Granulated Sugar
  • 2 Large Eggs
  • 1/2 cup Sour Cream
  • 1/4 cup Bourbon
  • 1 tsp Vanilla Extract

Bourbon Glaze

  • 1 cup Powdered Sugar
  • 2-3 tbsp Bourbon

For Garnish (optional)

  • Chopped nuts (pecans, walnuts) or dried fruits
  • Whipped cream or vanilla ice cream

Instructions
 

  • Preheat your oven to 350°F (175°C). Grease and flour a 9-inch bundt pan.
  • In a medium-sized bowl, whisk together the flour, baking powder, baking soda, salt, cinnamon, nutmeg, and cloves. Set aside.
  • In a large mixing bowl, cream together the softened butter and granulated sugar until light and fluffy using a hand mixer or a stand mixer.
  • Add the eggs one at a time, mixing well after each addition. Then, mix in the sour cream, bourbon, and vanilla extract until well combined.
  • Gradually add the dry ingredients mixture to the wet ingredients, mixing until just combined. Be careful not to overmix.
  • Pour the batter into the prepared bundt pan and spread it evenly.
  • Bake in the preheated oven for 40-45 minutes, or until a toothpick inserted into the center of the cake comes out clean.
  • While the cake is baking, prepare the bourbon glaze. In a small bowl, whisk together the powdered sugar and bourbon until you achieve a smooth glaze consistency. Adjust the amount of bourbon to reach your desired thickness.
  • Once the cake is done baking, remove it from the oven and let it cool in the pan for about 10-15 minutes. Then, carefully transfer the cake onto a wire rack to cool completely.
  • Once the cake has cooled, drizzle the bourbon glaze over the top of the cake. Allow the glaze to set for a few minutes.
  • Optionally, garnish the cake with chopped nuts or dried fruits. Serve slices of the spiced bourbon holiday cake with whipped cream or vanilla ice cream if desired.

Notes

Here’s a great recipe for any of your holiday celebrations! Enjoy this adult boozy cake. 
Keyword bourbon, cake, dessert, spice

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Navigating Autumn’s Embrace: Setting Fall Goals as a Single Mom

As the leaves start to change their hues and the crisp air of autumn begins to envelop us, it’s a time for introspection and growth. For single moms, this season can signify an opportunity for personal development and self-improvement amidst the beauty of change. Embracing the fall season, both literally and metaphorically, presents a chance to set meaningful goals and embark on a journey toward positive transformation. Here are a few things that you can focus on in the season of transition and change.

Embracing Change

Fall symbolizes change – a transition from the warmth of summer to the cooler, more contemplative months. As a single mom, acknowledging and embracing change is key to setting meaningful goals. It’s an invitation to assess where you are, where you want to be, and how you plan to get there. There’s an invitation in these months to focus on creating warmth and memorable moments with your children. Think about the upcoming new year and set goals that you would like to see in the next year. Work on creating sustainable habits that can help you move towards that goal.

Cultivating Self-Care

Amidst the responsibilities of parenthood, carving out time for self-care is crucial. Fall offers a natural backdrop for this. Consider setting goals to prioritize your well-being, whether it’s through dedicating time for exercise, mindfulness practices, or simply enjoying a cup of tea amidst the falling leaves. It can be easy to get caught up in the holiday season and forget to take care of yourself but make sure to set aside moments to get refreshed and filled up so that you can be present throughout the holiday season with your kids.

Nurturing Personal Growth

Self-improvement isn’t just about physical health; it’s also about mental and emotional growth. Fall provides the perfect ambiance to nurture personal growth. Consider setting goals related to learning a new skill, enrolling in a course, or dedicating time to a hobby that brings you joy and fulfillment. Set a goal to listen to or read some books that will help you grow in the areas that you are looking to grow in. Every step forward helps you reach your goals!

Building Support Networks

For single moms, having a support network is invaluable. As the days grow shorter and the nights longer, use this time to strengthen your connections. Set goals to reach out to friends, family, or community groups. Building a support system can provide encouragement and assistance when needed. Social networks are so important to not only yourself during the holidays but also to your children.

Organizing Finances and Time Management

Fall is an ideal period for reevaluating financial goals and refining time management strategies. Set goals to create a budget, save for upcoming expenses or streamline daily routines. Being organized financially and time-wise can alleviate stress and provide a sense of empowerment. During the holiday season, we can tend to spend more than in other times of year so it’s important that we focus on creating a good budget so that you don’t go into the new year battling extra debts.

Fostering Quality Time with Family

As the holiday season approaches, consider setting goals to foster meaningful moments with your children. Plan activities that encourage bonding, such as pumpkin carving, nature walks amidst the foliage, or cozy evenings with storytelling and hot chocolate. There are many opportunities to put a little awe and wonder into your child’s life during the holiday season!

As the autumnal season envelops us in its transformative embrace, seize the opportunity as a single mom to set fall goals that resonate with your aspirations. Embrace change, prioritize self-care, foster personal growth, build support networks, organize your life, and create cherished memories with your family. Remember, these goals are not just about achieving objectives but about embracing a journey toward a more fulfilling and empowered life.

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Cranberry Sauce From Scratch

During the holiday season, as the family gets together it’s always fun to celebrate the holidays with traditional food. While we all love the canned cranberry sauce it’s fun to make it from scratch from time to time. Enjoy this simple and easy-to-make recipe!

Cranberry Sauce from Scratch

Print Recipe
Prep Time 30 minutes
Course Side Dish
Cuisine American
Servings 5

Equipment

  • 1 Sauce Pan
  • Measuring Cups
  • 1 Wooden Spoon

Ingredients
  

  • 12 oz (about 3 cups) fresh cranberries
  • 1 cup granulated sugar
  • 1 cup water
  • Zest of 1 orange (optional)
  • 1/2 cup Juice of 1 orange (optional)
  • 1 Cinnamon stick or a pinch of ground cinnamon (optional)

Instructions
 

  • Prepare the Cranberries: Rinse the cranberries under running water and discard any soft or mushy ones. Set aside.
  • Combine Ingredients in a Saucepan: In a medium saucepan, combine the water and sugar. Stir over medium heat until the sugar dissolves completely.
  • Add Cranberries and Flavorings: Add the cranberries to the saucepan. If using, add the orange zest, orange juice, and cinnamon at this point. Stir to combine.
  • Simmer: Bring the mixture to a gentle boil, then reduce the heat to medium-low. Let the cranberries simmer, stirring occasionally, for about 10-15 minutes. The cranberries will burst and the mixture will thicken.
  • Adjust Consistency and Flavor: Taste the cranberry sauce. If you prefer it sweeter, you can add more sugar to taste. If it's too tart, add a bit more sugar. For extra flavor, adjust by adding more orange zest, juice, or cinnamon, based on your preference.
  • Cool and Serve: Once the sauce has reached your desired consistency and flavor, remove it from the heat. The sauce will continue to thicken as it cools. Transfer it to a bowl or airtight container and let it cool to room temperature. Then refrigerate until ready to serve.
  • Optional Step: If you prefer a smoother sauce, you can use an immersion blender or regular blender to puree the cranberry sauce once it has cooled slightly. Be cautious when blending hot liquids.
  • Serve: Cranberry sauce can be served chilled or at room temperature alongside your favorite dishes, particularly with roasted meats like turkey, chicken, or as a spread on sandwiches.

Notes

This homemade cranberry sauce can be stored in the refrigerator for about a week. Feel free to adjust the sweetness and additional flavors according to your taste preferences. This is a great recipe to have at any holiday party or family dinner. 
 
 
 
Keyword carnberry sauce, cranberry, sauce

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